Eros is part of Divine Love

A mystic teaches that mutual desire, trust, and vulnerability in human relationships prepares us for surrender to Divine Love.

In the wee hours I often admire my husband’s muscular back, giving thanks for its “surest protection” like the “resplendent mountain,” I recently discovered in a 13th-century spiritual memoir by a German mystic. Mechtild de Magdeburg wrote surprisingly carnal—bordering on erotic—love poetry, describing her ecstatic experiences of deep, unburdened, and reliably reciprocal physical union with the Divine with all parts of her humanhood: mind, heart, soul and body. Although her manuscript languished undiscovered for centuries, once its unashamedly detailed and passionate dialogues between lovers was translated from low German, it has inflamed imaginations, including mine. Mechtild writes, for example:

“The narrower the bed of love becomes, the more intense are the embraces,
The sweeter the kisses on the mouth become, the more lovingly they gaze at each other….
The more she consumes, the more she has.
The more ardent she remains, the sooner she bursts into flame.
The more she burns, the more beautifully she glows.”

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Sharing Gifts: The Essence of Faith and Community

The divine gift of Christ’s love is manifested when we sacrifice and adore.

They prostrated themselves and did him homage. Then they opened their treasures and offered him gifts. Matthew 12:11

My favorite definition of grace is a gift unearned.  So perhaps it was grace more than coincidence that a homily on the Feast of the Epiphany, which celebrates the giving of gifts, included a call for volunteers just as I was about to begin a semester-long academic sabbatical in 2012. A sense of obligation to be more devoted plus an attitude of “why not?” prompted me to make a three-month commitment to spend an hour per week in a small chapel at my Catholic church. That those three months extended to 13 years has been not only a gift to me, but one I’ve opened and offered to others in diverse ways.

Receiving unexpected gifts can prompt one of two responses: feeling special, somehow chosen, or feeling inspired to share, “re-gifting” in today’s parlance. Some say that the true meaning of a gift is not realized until it is passed along, offered to anyone with generosity and without conditions. In Alcoholic Anonymous, for example, the gift of sobriety, a “spiritual awakening” obtained via the first 11 steps, is lost if not carried to other addicts and alcoholics through service: Step 12.

I’ve always believed I am not in full possession of my values, beliefs, and faith until I share them with others, even to the point of sacrifice.

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